My Quotes

  1. Life is like a car ,if you take control of it, it will be under control; if you speed more than you could control ,you may meet an accident.
  2. Love is chirping sound of birds in the early morning.
  3. Old man/woman is like a child but the child is pampered and old is ignored.
  4. Faith is disagreement to doubt.
  5. Fear is winning of unwanted forces on you.
  6. Hatred affects your health and not whom you hate.
  7. Meditation connecting yourself with your breath.
  8. Competition within helps you grow but competition with your loved ones will make you fall.
  9. Smile is the easiest way of communication.
  10. Tears take out negativity through eyes may effect your eyes but writing leads to transparency in thoughts.

Feels Good On Little Appreciation



 Pratibha, your post reminds us all to be careful when handling or playing with firecrackers, if not avoiding them completely. I do hope your young relative is recovering well from the incident.


A little appreciation works like food for soul and inspire to write better.A little step everyday will cover miles of  journey towards self recognition.I am very excited to share this with my blog readers.Thanks for all your support and without your support and inspiration I would not have come this way.

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What Man Want?


    
    
    Contradictory to ‘’Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars’’, actually the fact is both are from same planet Earth and are not aliens. Keeping gender away from the pen,I am writing for men. We have been talking about the women’s exploitation, hurt, tolerance and other social issues related to women and forgot the other counter gender part. They have been victimized, misunderstood and agitated in relationships because of the lack of communication and expressions.
    Who have not heard this phrase ‘’ Behind every successful man there is a woman’’ and actually want his woman to stand behind him for all her love and support but if the same woman tries to stand in front of him and try to pull him forward then the scenario would be different and would never prefer woman to overpower his ego. He wants his woman to work backstage though he always want her to smile and want to see her happy but he actually need to peep inside what is going on in her mind and what is important for her.
    Man wants his women to listen to him, his needs and his silence, he wants her life revolving around him and even woman wants that. I am not flumping any of the gender instead , I believe that god created them this way only. Turn over the pages of history; we will come to know about the patience, tolerance, devotion of women towards her family. In return she lost her identity….Sita mata  swallowed by the earth to let her free from all the sufferings of womanhood; Sati entered in fire to prove her love and respect for Lord Shiva and Savitri pulled her husband from the mouth of death. Man wants his wife to prove herself irrespective of era.
    He wants his woman to give her all the time and love and care to him and his family without nagging and complaining him. Man usually compares his wife with his mother and wants to love his wife more than his father did to his mother. It might be a    hypothesis but based on some facts and psychological aspect that is Oedipus Complex which says that a boy loves his mother and competes with his father to get all her love.He compares his wife with his mother but the fact is mother is mother and a wife can never compete with the mother.
    Women expresses her hurt component in the form of tears, anger but men rarely trigger his tear glands to cry as ‘’men never supposed to cry’’, though he cry without tears and burst into anger and hurt others or if he tried to overpower his emotions, he would prefer to be alone and any disturbance in his that state of mind could lead to conflicts.
    Because of his inherently indued egoistic nature men rarely show their concealed soft hearted nature and  share their emotions of sorrows and weakness in front of others on contrary women expresses their heart out to the closed ones, cry for letting out her emotions and negativity and then normalize but a man carries a lot of weight on his chest and  that is the reason ,he is more prone to heart breaks and aches.
    Besides this every women must know what his man wants and vice versa to live a harmonious relationship and a balanced life. Usually conflicts arise due to sheer differences in perceptions on the individual level and often gender based but interestingly ‘’opposite attract each other’’ in real life as the magnetic forces do exist in relationship between men and women too.Often men get attracted to the beautiful looks and pleasing personalities initially but he prefers to live honestly and loyal with the one who is passionate and caring.
    So whether it men or women ACCEPT AND ADJUST philosophy works for both of them. A man wants his wife to be happy always and if he failed to do that then he feel frustrated and then vicious circle of unhappiness and frustration goes on. One really needs to work very hard to break that vicious circle. Understanding mutually could stop the debate on what man wants and what woman wants.
    
    
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    Riddle Of Perceptions

    Through the hazy eyes I looked at you,
    with a little burst of tears again I looked at you.

    You were looking with innocence in eye,
    you pretend to be unaware of what went with me.

    Everytime you want me to explain.
    every question of yours, you need to get exclaimed.

    Sometimes you are getting on my nerves;
    sometimes talking to you is like hitting my head against wall.

    Your stubborn nature make me angry,
    but looking into your innocence again drive me crazy.

    Sometime I am so helpless, sometimes authoritarian;
    but its your innocent eyes ;Oh! my child,
    which progressively changed me,
    to be a better person and a better mom.

    She Left Me Undisturbed

    ''Mom you are so interfering.......mom don't disturb me ''
    those words were peeping in his mind repeatedly which he spoke to his mother lately ; when he saw his mother lying quietly on the floor.Why  is she so quiet now? He has taken his mother for granted and never bothered about her feelings.Always busy with work and his own world and never had thought of his mother .Thoughts in his mind created disturbances.........


    She died.She left me undisturbed;
    guilt beneath,
    disturb me all the more.
    I could feel her presence,
    even if she is not anymore.
    She left me insecure,
    penalized me for not caring enough.
    I was so busy, couldn't felt her aching heart;
    her concerns for me,
    thinking and providing comfort
    to a non deserving son.
    A mother who created me,
    slept unconcerned.
    Mom give me another chance;
    you are the one to whom I belonged,
    give me a reason to live ;
    to live for you,
    to wash off my guilt,
    to make you a proud and happy mom.


    Please come back..............




    You have one life .....and that life is given by your Mom.
    Don't wait for another chance.......it might be the first and the last chance.
    Value her the most as she is next to God.



    Self Made QUOTES

    I tried to write few quotes and need feedback for the same.I always appreciate honest comments.
    Here are my quotes:



    1) Life- Life is like a bubble emerge,merge and collapse.

    2) Relationship- Relationship is like an earthen lamp lit;  till you oil it.

    3)Inspiration-  Anything can inspire; if you have a zeal to be inspired.

    4)Freedom-   Freedom is the best reason to celebrate.

    5)Love-  Love is like a flower,even leave fragrance in the hands of those who vanish it.

    6)Home-   Life in four walled structure.

    7)Prayer-   When mind and heart completely connect to god.

    8)Childhood-   Innocent eyes wondering world.

    9)Teenage-    Sandwich between childhood and adulthood.

    10)Character-   A quality that never cross fine lines.

    Don't Kill Me-Voice Against Female Foeticide

    13 Weeks Scan


    Mom,don't kill me;
    for the reason I am a girl.

    Mom ,don't punish me;
    I will not bother you much.
    I won't disturb you;
    cuddle quietly in your womb.

    Mom,I will help you,
    spare my life.
    Mom ,how can you kill me?
     I am within you.

    Mom ,who is bothering you?
    me or those who are influencing you,
    to kill me.

    Mom,am I not your part?
    I belong to you;
    I am your blood.

    Mom,please don't disconnect
    umbilical cord between you and me;
    before I could see the real world.

    Mom,please give me a chance;
    to come out and prove myself.

    Mom,save me for yourself,
    preserve womanhood;
    to which you belong.

    Mom,your mom gave your birth;
    Why are you disowning me?

    Mom,save me before its too late;
    it will be you who will decide my fate.

    Mysterious Thoughts




    Mind have been  always occupied with thoughts and blogging twitched me to write more irrespective of my busy schedule.Some constant driving force push me to write my mind out but sometimes my hands don't show cooperative coordination with the state of mind.When I try to express myself some hindrances pull me back and not allowing me to write 100% of me.Blogging is an attempt to be transparent with my own self.I am sharing this to get feedback on what other feels about it.
    Writers block have been impinged  me several times with all its strength but sometimes I win over it.This battle of thought have turned mysteriously most of the time and the solution is yet to find.

    Someone you love

    Someone you love....




    When you think about someone,
    when someone dares to come in your dream.
    Its love.


    When someone pamper you the most;
    aches your heart,
    wipe off your tears.
    Its love.


    When you can feel someone's presence;
    even in absence.
    Its love


    When someone perceive your silence; 
    more than your words.
    its love


    when you smile without a reason
    glare the horizon
    Its love.


    when someone look into your eyes;
    take your breath.
    its love.


    When someone search you everywhere;
    even when chances are rare.
    Its love.


    Waiting for someone you love;
    moments becomes hours and days becomes years.
    Its love.


    When holding  pen to write something;
    end-up writing about someone .
    its love.

    Celebration



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    We wait for this season of festivals and celebrations one whole year.Diwali is one such festival of year which certainly change the look of our houses,this is the time people want to paint their houses with a color of hope ,happiness and prosperity and plan renovation of houses,offices....for the reason of diwali and its very shubh to do all that and for the aagman of laxmi mata.When we look upon the dressed houses wearing different lights in different style..ah! how could I forgot to mention those lazer lights which my neighbour used.More than artificial light I like diyas and to me its very inspiring.Here are a few lines :

    Diwali is the festival engaging all five senses:
    1) Eyes-beautiful decoration,dazzling shimmering lights,crackers emitting differt colored sparkling lights fill the    night with more artificially created starry component.
    2) Nose-fragrance of flowers,fumes of delicious recipes
    3) Mouth-mouth watering sweets,different flavors of traditional food favorite of tongue
    4) Ear-aartis,chants on diwali,shankh,the holy bell we use in poojas
    5) Touch-the wishes,hugs we exchange on diwali pull out negativity from us

    What about sixth sense?To wake up the sleeping sixth sense I have one very recent incidence to share with a message.
    My one very close relative,who is very dear to me,very sweet and charming boy who had entered teenage just a few months earlier,a boy so obedient and very well mannered,a son whom every parent would proud of .His father gave him a new mobile as Diwali gift and he was so excited to show it to his friends who were engaged in igniting crackers with all their innovative ideas.They showed him their new invention and fun in putting cracker in pipe.They told him that they ignited it a few minutes back but it did not burst anyhow.My innocent cousin went close to that evil pipe and peep inside to see why its not working, but the moment he went very close to it,it bursted horribly and took away the flawless skin ,happiness for this Diwali....his mother was nearby but couldn't stopped it as when she reached , her pearl of eyes turned black .His face looked smoky, for a mother its very difficult to tolerate but sometimes you have no other choice than to act with all your senses and powered by crisis with a gush of adrenaline in your blood.She called relatives for help as she was all alone but the neighbours were the first one to help and then they rushed to nearby hospital to seek immediate treatment.They washed his face several times to actually see his face and the extent of damage to the skin and the eyes which were most affected.In the meantime relatives reached that place and they called the known Opthalmologist for the eyes and thank god! he said eyes are safe but need to put lot of medicines as the skin over eyes was burnt, the forehead was also burnt badly.Today when I saw his face ,his face before the burn was waving around my thought .I tried hard to look on his face and poor eyes which were oedematous [ fluid filled] and swelling was so much that he couldn't open his eyes and all the eyelashes were itching into his eyes.God! what the hell crackers are for?

    I am writing this as I couldn't sleep without pouring it out.I am so stressed out with all this.His mother was moving restlessly in hospital ,his father wearing gloves to provide comfort to the child and save him from further infections.If god gives the pain ,he gives the strength also.

    But my question is WHAT IS THE ROLE OF CRACKERS ON DIWALI?
    Whom do you [the people who throw thousands and  flaunt in front of others that we spent that much amount on crackers] think  dupe a)Yourself   b) People   c) Laxmi Mata .
    a) If yourself- then you are a fool as it will suffocate you in night as you polluted air like hell
    b) If people-those who have very short memory and will never appreciate you.
    c) Laxmi Mata-I don't think she will come this way.She will never enter the suffocating ambiance created by you and the noise pollution with sudden scary explosion of crackers kill the pleasure of arti,shankh,holy bell.

    If such people have real money and if they want to celebrate Diwali to please yourself,the people and the Laxmi Mata then donate the amount you wanted to spend on crackers so that somebody else could celebrate Diwali too and that happiness will make you happy and satisfy your soul and Laxmi Mata will shower her blessings too.

    WISH YOU ALL A VERY HAPPY  ECO-FRIENDLY DIWALI




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    ‘’ POWER TO KEEP DREAM IN MY POCKET ‘’

    I wish I could have 3G phone which is fire of today’s generation .Ten years back, a girl whom I saw or just had a glance on her beauty ; I regretted I had no camera , no such mobile to capture her sparking beauty. Just a moment later, she lost in crowd. I tried to forget her sparkling, glittering eyes and million worth smile but all in vain. More I tried to forgot her, the more she disturbed my peace of mind, my sleep…..I was a changed person by then .I could never forgot those chasing eyes.

    Years passed by and with every passing years my urge to get my love increased .I believed that if I loved her completely then anyhow I will get her love.

    Life gave me another chance , after waiting for five years ; once again her eyes encountered mine but this time I did not want to lose her .She was going through escalator and I was running after her as I could. I never ran that fast as it was more than emergency to me .I could not let her go right in front of my eyes .I jumped through the escalator, I got hurt badly ……my knees were bleeding and I couldn’t felt that as I felt something else at that time but somehow once I touched her hand , I  hold it so tightly that she could ,I believe, feel gush of love flowing through my eyes .The warmth of my hands melted her heart. Without losing a moment, I said…

    ‘’through your eyes my love
    I succumbed
    A glance on your face
    Seized me five years
    Forgot the world including myself
    For my heart dwells in you ‘’

    She said nothing but I could see tears around the corners of her beautiful eyes made it even more beautiful .This time I said those three words which have been  rejuvenating with time, this time I heard her unspoken words and her silent approval through her fumbled lips.

    Today those sparking eyes are with me as she is my beloved wife and I am a father of a beautiful girl who is Xerox of my wife and now my house is enlighted with the beauty and happiness. Last weekend I went to the shopping mall with my happy family, their I saw 3 G PHONE and realized how it fastened life and saves time.
    My five year waiting period would have decreased if I had have that mobile which I would have used to click my beloved whom when I saw for the first time. I could have searched her with her picture in my mobile. But now I want to catch hold of happiness in my fist. Now without waiting further I will click my child’s every moment, every trick,,,,,,,,, every  word she speaks and how can I forget my wife …my life. Now I am very close to my dream and have a dream in my pocket.
    ''3G  - Power to keep dream in my pocket''

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    My First Experience

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    Some incidences you can never forget in life.One of the incidence I could relate to humor took me back to 3rd year in dental college.
    In 3rd year,we got opportunity to work on patient,with our bestest of knowledge and skills.My first posting was in oral surgery where we supposed to extract [remove] the tooth and do minor surgeries.We were allotted patients according to our roll numbers .We were so excited but nervous too for performing our skills on patients.Finally the day arrived and it was my turn to extract the tooth of an old aged patient.the tooth was very mobile but the patient was very apprehensive but I was wearing a confident mask.The best part was he didn't knew either English or Hindi.So it was a kind of weird to interact when you really need it.Their were nurses to translate but because of number of patients in OPD couldn't help me.I was observing his expressions and he was observing mine too then I told him to take deep breath by demonstrating him .Then  I checked b.p and monitored vital sign.After initial examination I anesthetized him with local anaesthesia and asked the symptoms for numbness.Since he was my patient and this was the regimen we all were following but the patient was very impatient.When I applied the forcep on tooth and tried to knock out the tooth at the same time patient suddenly moved his head in the opposite direction and since the tooth was very mobile it came out without much effort.I managed to laugh without showing it to the patient as I was wearing mask and the patient was very happy with the painless and effortless extraction of his tooth.

    Since it was the first experience with patient I can never forget and whenever I discuss it,it makes me laugh.

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