Journey of Love

Love is......
when you miss him
in his absence
which makes you restless
which disturbs your peace of mind
when he is not around
Sometimes, you feel insecure
You have no reason
you look lost
you start liking waiting
but when it approaches
you lose calm
You can not wait anymore
It is weird
makes no sense at times
its hard to understand
you wait for person,
spent whole day thinking about him
but when you face him
you have no words
he gets angry..you get angry
He is craving for the words...

but you have no words
wonder why he does not understand silence
if understands

then he pretends he does not
eyes listens to the heart and tears find their ways
It is not easy as it seems
Its way too difficult to express
it makes you irritated
It shortens your temper
you were never like this before
you have changed
but you have no idea
why you changed
though you never wanted to
you miss yourself
the way were before
the freedom you had
now you have not
now you are responsible
responsibilities took your freedom
you were free bird before
but you start liking your nest
it is not you can not fly
it just you are not you but you are we
your world has changed
you have grown up
accepting your roles
you are still you but a mature you
You are the one whom people can rely
you are one who has all answer
though you may not have
but you have too

Love is beyond words
It is beyond horizon
it is an eye opener
you have better perceptions
you are better human being...

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Someone you love

Someone you love....




When you think about someone,
when someone dares to come in your dream.
Its love.


When someone pamper you the most;
aches your heart,
wipe off your tears.
Its love.


When you can feel someone's presence;
even in absence.
Its love


When someone perceive your silence; 
more than your words.
its love


when you smile without a reason
glare the horizon
Its love.


when someone look into your eyes;
take your breath.
its love.


When someone search you everywhere;
even when chances are rare.
Its love.


Waiting for someone you love;
moments becomes hours and days becomes years.
Its love.


When holding  pen to write something;
end-up writing about someone .
its love.

Eyes Speaks

Eyes speaks….

Not verbally,

Without any language

But still it speaks

With expressions.

Sometimes eyes smile with a spark in them

Sometimes throw tears in anger and pain

Eye speaks…

In childhood

With glitter of innocence

Eyes speaks…

when in love

Keep rolling for someone

And when strike,hold

And pretend differently

Eyes speaks….

 when mesmerized in baby love

Sometimes through tears of happiness

And sometimes cry in pain

Eyes speaks…

 in oldage

For attention,love

Demand to be looked after

Sometimes looks tired

But sometimes,

 eyes don’t speak

Rest in peace,

Leave other’s eyes crying for them

Self Respect

Self respected person can respect others and owe respect, those who think that they are sacrificing /compromising their lives for others actually repent later in their lives. To be self respected first trust yourself, believe in your capabilities, don’t allow anybody taking you for granted.

Life is tough and gives you kicks at different times .It will burn you to polish the diamond in you, Take it, fight with it, and prove yourself. Stop giving explanations but prove it through actions. Maintain a higher character not to please others but for your own. Give time to yourself, to express yourself, you worth time, love…... Spread love; try to be realistic while dealing with expectation because it hurt you most of the time.

You play different roles at different times but don’t forget that actual you. Don’t be a puppet of emotions all the time. If emotions hire your health then you become weak and so is your immunity and you become prey for diseases. Choose a healthy lifestyle. Start your day with a morning walk in lush green surrounding, feel the nature, pleasing chirping sound of birds and  end your day with a thankful note to god for everything.

 Complaining life and blaming others will neither solve your problem nor will it do any good to you. Criticizing fate /destiny blah blah….is a character of looser. Don’t be a looser or beggar because beggars are not choosers we all are aware of this phrase instead keep your own choices and decisions.

Stop people from influencing you don’t mean that you are arrogant show them you loved their idea but keep in your mind your own point of view .Don’t allow anybody to hover your mind to the extent of self respect. Loving others, respecting them is different and leaving your own identity to please others is separate things .If people around you really love you, they will understand you and if not then that means they are mean enough to hurt you throughout your life. I won’t say leave them or hurt them but for your own sake set limits for such people. Be happy and let others be happy is my mantra of life.

If you come across to judgmental people, those who think themselves smart enough to judge you all the time,will never leave a single opportunity to make you feel weak, inferior…..to lower your self respect as they are borne with  judgmental  qualities and can judge you from dawn to dusk are actually weak personalities ,those who feel superior by pushing you down. They are actually jealous of you. Just leave them with their in born traits and be your own judge and give them food for thought.

In conclusion forget about the people because they keep on changing with time, they are updated enough. In good times, they will laugh with you, give you their valuable company, will make you feel on the top of world. But the moment you will fall, nobody will come to you to hold your hand instead they will blame you to infinity, give you their expert advices and do everything to break your spine.

The solution and one line answer to such people is that sit on a higher seat [beyond the threshold limit of influence of people] of self respect where nobody can affect you. Feel superior but don’t forget the one above you , who is controlling everything. Love his creation, appreciate it and respect it not for others but for your own SELF RESPECT.