What Man Want?

Contradictory to ‘’Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars’’, actually the fact is both are from same planet Earth and are not aliens. Keeping gender away from the pen,I am writing for men. We have been talking about the women’s exploitation, hurt, tolerance and other social issues related to women and forgot the other counter gender part. They have been victimized, misunderstood and agitated in relationships because of the lack of communication and expressions.









Who have not heard this phrase ‘’ Behind every successful man there is a woman’’ and actually want his woman to stand behind him for all her love and support but if the same woman tries to stand in front of him and try to pull him forward then the scenario would be different and would never prefer woman to overpower his ego. He wants his woman to work backstage though he always want her to smile and want to see her happy but he actually need to peep inside what is going on in her mind and what is important for her.









Man wants his women to listen to him, his needs and his silence, he wants her life revolving around him and even woman wants that. I am not flumping any of the gender instead , I believe that god created them this way only. Turn over the pages of history; we will come to know about the patience, tolerance, devotion of women towards her family. In return she lost her identity….Sita mata  swallowed by the earth to let her free from all the sufferings of womanhood; Sati entered in fire to prove her love and respect for Lord Shiva and Savitri pulled her husband from the mouth of death. Man wants his wife to prove herself irrespective of era.









He wants his woman to give her all the time and love and care to him and his family without nagging and complaining him. Man usually compares his wife with his mother and wants to love his wife more than his father did to his mother. It might be a    hypothesis but based on some facts and psychological aspect that is Oedipus Complex which says that a boy loves his mother and competes with his father to get all her love.He compares his wife with his mother but the fact is mother is mother and a wife can never compete with the mother.












Women expresses her hurt component in the form of tears, anger but men rarely trigger his tear glands to cry as ‘’men never supposed to cry’’, though he cry without tears and burst into anger and hurt others or if he tried to overpower his emotions, he would prefer to be alone and any disturbance in his that state of mind could lead to conflicts.








Because of his inherently indued egoistic nature men rarely show their concealed soft hearted nature and  share their emotions of sorrows and weakness in front of others on contrary women expresses their heart out to the closed ones, cry for letting out her emotions and negativity and then normalize but a man carries a lot of weight on his chest and  that is the reason ,he is more prone to heart breaks and aches.









Besides this every women must know what his man wants and vice versa to live a harmonious relationship and a balanced life. Usually conflicts arise due to sheer differences in perceptions on the individual level and often gender based but interestingly ‘’opposite attract each other’’ in real life as the magnetic forces do exist in relationship between men and women too.Often men get attracted to the beautiful looks and pleasing personalities initially but he prefers to live honestly and loyal with the one who is passionate and caring.




So whether it men or women ACCEPT AND ADJUST philosophy works for both of them. A man wants his wife to be happy always and if he failed to do that then he feel frustrated and then vicious circle of unhappiness and frustration goes on. One really needs to work very hard to break that vicious circle. Understanding mutually could stop the debate on what man wants and what woman wants.

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