What Man Want?


    
    
    Contradictory to ‘’Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars’’, actually the fact is both are from same planet Earth and are not aliens. Keeping gender away from the pen,I am writing for men. We have been talking about the women’s exploitation, hurt, tolerance and other social issues related to women and forgot the other counter gender part. They have been victimized, misunderstood and agitated in relationships because of the lack of communication and expressions.
    Who have not heard this phrase ‘’ Behind every successful man there is a woman’’ and actually want his woman to stand behind him for all her love and support but if the same woman tries to stand in front of him and try to pull him forward then the scenario would be different and would never prefer woman to overpower his ego. He wants his woman to work backstage though he always want her to smile and want to see her happy but he actually need to peep inside what is going on in her mind and what is important for her.
    Man wants his women to listen to him, his needs and his silence, he wants her life revolving around him and even woman wants that. I am not flumping any of the gender instead , I believe that god created them this way only. Turn over the pages of history; we will come to know about the patience, tolerance, devotion of women towards her family. In return she lost her identity….Sita mata  swallowed by the earth to let her free from all the sufferings of womanhood; Sati entered in fire to prove her love and respect for Lord Shiva and Savitri pulled her husband from the mouth of death. Man wants his wife to prove herself irrespective of era.
    He wants his woman to give her all the time and love and care to him and his family without nagging and complaining him. Man usually compares his wife with his mother and wants to love his wife more than his father did to his mother. It might be a    hypothesis but based on some facts and psychological aspect that is Oedipus Complex which says that a boy loves his mother and competes with his father to get all her love.He compares his wife with his mother but the fact is mother is mother and a wife can never compete with the mother.
    Women expresses her hurt component in the form of tears, anger but men rarely trigger his tear glands to cry as ‘’men never supposed to cry’’, though he cry without tears and burst into anger and hurt others or if he tried to overpower his emotions, he would prefer to be alone and any disturbance in his that state of mind could lead to conflicts.
    Because of his inherently indued egoistic nature men rarely show their concealed soft hearted nature and  share their emotions of sorrows and weakness in front of others on contrary women expresses their heart out to the closed ones, cry for letting out her emotions and negativity and then normalize but a man carries a lot of weight on his chest and  that is the reason ,he is more prone to heart breaks and aches.
    Besides this every women must know what his man wants and vice versa to live a harmonious relationship and a balanced life. Usually conflicts arise due to sheer differences in perceptions on the individual level and often gender based but interestingly ‘’opposite attract each other’’ in real life as the magnetic forces do exist in relationship between men and women too.Often men get attracted to the beautiful looks and pleasing personalities initially but he prefers to live honestly and loyal with the one who is passionate and caring.
    So whether it men or women ACCEPT AND ADJUST philosophy works for both of them. A man wants his wife to be happy always and if he failed to do that then he feel frustrated and then vicious circle of unhappiness and frustration goes on. One really needs to work very hard to break that vicious circle. Understanding mutually could stop the debate on what man wants and what woman wants.
    
    
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    23 comments:

    Pinky November 22, 2010 at 6:14 AM  

    Hey Friend.
    Do check your post again... I see some problem with colour and length of your words. The reading is made too difficult.

    Pratibha The Talent November 22, 2010 at 7:52 AM  

    hi Pinki,
    Thank you so much for telling me and I am glad to have friend like you.I made so many changes and messed it ,I hope its readable now.

    nkr4068 November 22, 2010 at 12:42 PM  

    I see the problem to have been raised already, but for me it still looks a bit messy. The letters and the color is all blue, not easliy recognizable from the background.

    Pratibha The Talent November 22, 2010 at 8:08 PM  

    @nkr4068
    Thanks for your time and sorry for the inconvenience ;I changed the post background color now.

    magiceye November 22, 2010 at 9:15 PM  

    sorry pratibha... very difficult to read due colour and being too wide

    Pratibha The Talent November 23, 2010 at 12:49 AM  

    I changed the template this time and need some feedback and help for the same problem.

    magiceye November 23, 2010 at 5:53 AM  

    re your query of writing on pic... download picasa software from http://picasa.google.com/
    open pic in picasa, click on text in the panel on left, write what you have to, select font type/size from left panel, arrange quote where you want and viola! you have it!! best wishes!!

    Pratibha The Talent November 23, 2010 at 5:56 AM  

    thanks for the valuable information.

    Zephyr November 23, 2010 at 7:47 AM  

    Agree with Magiceye about reading difficulty of the post. but from what I could read, it was nice.

    Rajesh November 23, 2010 at 9:30 AM  

    Beautifully written.

    Nalini Hebbar November 23, 2010 at 10:05 PM  

    Absolutely!

    A Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart! November 24, 2010 at 12:08 AM  

    I read the comments above, I think this is the changed template. I could read it well.

    Yes point taken Pratibha. Well, true the woman who supports the man cannot take the centre stage, or it will be difficult for the man to handle it.

    But, dear, a little more elaboration on what a man wants and desires would have made ur post even more informative and intersting.

    but its a post written from heart.

    tc

    RESTLESS

    POOJA... November 24, 2010 at 3:00 AM  

    please edit, it will be much more easier...
    rest, I read... agreed

    Shri Ram Ayyangar November 24, 2010 at 7:04 AM  

    Its not important as to what a man or a woman WANTS but whether they are able to live and perform to the expectations of each other for a happier life.

    Arpana November 24, 2010 at 10:44 AM  

    Hey pratibha , you don't think we have many powerful women advocates right here on indivine, naturally we women can conquer the blog.Good write up!

    Pratibha The Talent November 24, 2010 at 8:04 PM  

    @Zephyr-I have changed the font color and template to make it readable and thanks for the efforts of reading it and appreciating it.

    Pratibha The Talent November 24, 2010 at 8:05 PM  

    thanks Rajesh and Nalini mam.

    Pratibha The Talent November 24, 2010 at 8:10 PM  

    @Restless-My purpose of writing post irrespective of any contest is to be honest with my feelings and what I felt about that topic.It could be more interesting......I agree,but I felt it this way only .Thanks for the honest feedback and loved it really.

    Pratibha The Talent November 24, 2010 at 8:11 PM  

    @Shri Ram Ayyangar Sir-I agree with you

    Pratibha The Talent November 24, 2010 at 8:12 PM  

    @Pooja-thanks dear ,i edit it and changed the font color and template.

    Pratibha The Talent November 24, 2010 at 8:14 PM  

    @Arpana-Yes I do agree that indivine is full of powerful women and thanks for the encouraging words.

    Bhavana ಭಾವನ Rao November 25, 2010 at 1:22 PM  

    There should be mutual understanding and when this breaks, then starts the issue. I liked your last para.
    But I personally do not agree to if "men wants their women to stand behind him and support".
    I feel the best way is to respect each other and try not to put too much expectations. Because if the expctionas are not met then the relations goes sour.
    No matter what, men are usually tuned to think that "they have to exceed the women" (there are exceptions to this rule)- because if not the soceity considers him as henpecked and useless and he FEARS that!

    Pratibha The Talent November 25, 2010 at 7:59 PM  

    I have seen such cases and that reflected in my post.Well I completely agree with you because even I feel that mutual understanding is important and too much exploitation could create disharmony .

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