Mother not only give birth to the baby but influence personality development of a child.Mother –child relationships falls into two categories
1)Mothers who are affectionate with kids and allow enough autonomy build friendly relationship with their kids
2) Mothers who inflict punishment and ignore their child instill negative behaviour in their child.
Mother’s behaviour directly affect their child’s behaviour as depicted in the table below:
Mother’s behaviour Child’s behaviour
Overprotective,dominant | Shy,submissive,anxious |
Over indulgent | Aggressive,demanding and display of temper tantrums |
Under affectionate | Well behaved but shy ,may be unable to cooperate and cry easily due to low confidence level |
Rejecting | Aggressive,overactive and disobedient |
Authoritarian | Evasive and dawdling |
Message from above text:
Motherhood is’nt easy, it start with pain and need lot of pains and responsibilities in raising healthy child with a smile on face and innocence in eyes.Preserve their smile ,love them unconditionally.People says to mothers that your love spoiled your child but I believe that it is lack of love that spoil the child.Bring up your child the way you wanted to be loved in your childhood.
8 comments:
I appreciatiate your insight
Beautiful analysis of relationship.
well expressed
@Uma,Rajesh and Magiceye thanks for the wonder words of appreciation.
It is always good to repeat how much a mother's role is important in her child's development. Very interesting post.
Beautiful thoughts... very true :)
Hmm... Thank God for in India, we have an immensely proud majority of mothers who don't need to be told how well to nurture their babies. These good suggestions would be more suitable for their western counterparts and may be some of our own modern working mothers, as well, though.. Thanks for sharing, dear Pratibha!
@hindicinenglish ,Arti and Shrinath Vashishtha sir-thanks for your attention on blog and inspiring me.
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