Happy Father's day dear PaPa

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My father is a driving force for me to become what I am today and what I will be in my future. He has been a great help in whatever I do. I am expressing gratitude to my father through the poem on Father's day. 

Father O ' dear father

You have been there

in the lows and high

your words

your voice

worked wonder

for me

I remember

in childhood

When I was small

holding your finger

in a fear of losing you

Now I am grown up

I still have fear of losing you

What do I do

I want to hold your finger

and want to follow your foot steps

I want to be like you

I tried hard

but I know

I cannot become like you

in fact no one can be like you

You have the special place in my heart

you gave me breath

you gave me heartbeat

you gave me life

you told me

How to live life

I love how you simplify life

Which seems to be complicated to me

You have a huge heart

you absorbed my mistakes

never let me down

you increased my height

in people's eye

I am nothing...

without you

I have seen you struggling with life and death

but you always won

no matter how hard life was with you

Your life inspire me

I feel nothing can stop me

to be what I want to be

I am growing because of you

I have learned so much from you and that empowers me

You can never get better

you are the best

you value humanity

your higher perceptions

are exceptional

I am just a little sapling

I need your protective hands

or let me grow to withstand it

O' father give me the light

give me the way

to walk your way

I  never want to lose your from my sight

Father you might not know

How much I care for you

I am away but still with you

I am proud to be your daughter

You are my pride my honour...

Happy Father's day to the best father in the world.

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Eyes Speaks

Eyes speaks….

Not verbally,

Without any language

But still it speaks

With expressions.

Sometimes eyes smile with a spark in them

Sometimes throw tears in anger and pain

Eye speaks…

In childhood

With glitter of innocence

Eyes speaks…

when in love

Keep rolling for someone

And when strike,hold

And pretend differently

Eyes speaks….

 when mesmerized in baby love

Sometimes through tears of happiness

And sometimes cry in pain

Eyes speaks…

 in oldage

For attention,love

Demand to be looked after

Sometimes looks tired

But sometimes,

 eyes don’t speak

Rest in peace,

Leave other’s eyes crying for them

MOTHER-CHILD RELATIONSHIP

Mother not only give birth to the baby but influence personality development of a child.Mother –child relationships falls into two categories

1)Mothers who are affectionate with kids and allow enough autonomy build friendly relationship with their kids

2) Mothers who inflict punishment and ignore their child instill negative behaviour in their child.

Mother’s behaviour directly affect their child’s behaviour as depicted in the table below:

Mother’s behaviour                      Child’s behaviour

Overprotective,dominant	Shy,submissive,anxious
Over indulgent	Aggressive,demanding and display of temper tantrums
Under affectionate	Well behaved but shy ,may be unable to cooperate and cry easily due to low confidence level
Rejecting	Aggressive,overactive and disobedient
Authoritarian	Evasive and dawdling

Message from above text:

Motherhood is’nt easy, it start with pain and need lot of pains and responsibilities in raising healthy child with a smile on face and innocence in eyes.Preserve their smile ,love them unconditionally.People says to mothers that your love spoiled your child but I believe that it is lack of love that spoil the child.Bring up your child the way you wanted to be loved in your childhood.