Self respected person can respect others and owe respect, those who think that they are sacrificing /compromising their lives for others actually repent later in their lives. To be self respected first trust yourself, believe in your capabilities, don’t allow anybody taking you for granted.
Life is tough and gives you kicks at different times .It will burn you to polish the diamond in you, Take it, fight with it, and prove yourself. Stop giving explanations but prove it through actions. Maintain a higher character not to please others but for your own. Give time to yourself, to express yourself, you worth time, love…... Spread love; try to be realistic while dealing with expectation because it hurt you most of the time.
You play different roles at different times but don’t forget that actual you. Don’t be a puppet of emotions all the time. If emotions hire your health then you become weak and so is your immunity and you become prey for diseases. Choose a healthy lifestyle. Start your day with a morning walk in lush green surrounding, feel the nature, pleasing chirping sound of birds and end your day with a thankful note to god for everything.
Complaining life and blaming others will neither solve your problem nor will it do any good to you. Criticizing fate /destiny blah blah….is a character of looser. Don’t be a looser or beggar because beggars are not choosers we all are aware of this phrase instead keep your own choices and decisions.
Stop people from influencing you don’t mean that you are arrogant show them you loved their idea but keep in your mind your own point of view .Don’t allow anybody to hover your mind to the extent of self respect. Loving others, respecting them is different and leaving your own identity to please others is separate things .If people around you really love you, they will understand you and if not then that means they are mean enough to hurt you throughout your life. I won’t say leave them or hurt them but for your own sake set limits for such people. Be happy and let others be happy is my mantra of life.
If you come across to judgmental people, those who think themselves smart enough to judge you all the time,will never leave a single opportunity to make you feel weak, inferior…..to lower your self respect as they are borne with judgmental qualities and can judge you from dawn to dusk are actually weak personalities ,those who feel superior by pushing you down. They are actually jealous of you. Just leave them with their in born traits and be your own judge and give them food for thought.
In conclusion forget about the people because they keep on changing with time, they are updated enough. In good times, they will laugh with you, give you their valuable company, will make you feel on the top of world. But the moment you will fall, nobody will come to you to hold your hand instead they will blame you to infinity, give you their expert advices and do everything to break your spine.
The solution and one line answer to such people is that sit on a higher seat [beyond the threshold limit of influence of people] of self respect where nobody can affect you. Feel superior but don’t forget the one above you , who is controlling everything. Love his creation, appreciate it and respect it not for others but for your own SELF RESPECT.
